I had to have peace with our game plan. The hubby finally came back from Ohio from his inservice. We will meet with the dr. on Sept 25 for our IVF consult. We will probably have our ivf in December. We will try a couple of IVF cycles, and if that doesn't work, depending on egg quality we may do donor sperm (if eggs are penetratable and look good). If that doesn't work or eggs are not that good, we will adopt.